I asked a friend to have coffee with me,

I picked my favourite coffee shop, ordered my favourite latte for us both, i decided what topic to talk about and i say goodbye to my friend when my time is done.

Or

I asked my friend where she wants to go, what drink she will have and if there’s something in her mind which she would like to share with me

On a personal level,

Don’t be a control

Freak

To your mind, treat your mind as a friend who can speak for itself

You can do it by meditating, calm your mind,

Free your mind

Only then you can find out who you truly are,

Find your unique identity, and see what miracle thing only you can do