I learned that there is a different way of communication.
Instead of piling on big words, more words and non stop talking, beginning with silence is an excellent way to express yourself in its truest form.
Keep your eyes focus on the person you are talking to, no distraction. When i look closely to the person who i am talking to, i can see their friendly face, kind eyes, the ageing fine lines, everything that makes her unique as a person.
Instead of using words, i use my heart to feel the connection between us, to feel the feeling of the person opposite me, and so when i start talking, i am able to chose a tone/a facial expression to match the perceived feeling, and by that i find a ground for understanding and communicate more effectively.
Love is the root of everything, when everything is done with love and with care, the result becomes amazing and paramount.