I learned that there is a different way of communication.
Instead of piling on big words, more words and non stop talking, beginning with silence is an excellent way to express yourself in its truest form.
Keep your eyes focus on the person you are talking to, no distraction. When i look closely to the person who i am talking to, i can see their friendly face, kind eyes, the ageing fine lines, everything that makes her unique as a person.
Instead of using words, i use my heart to feel the connection between us, to feel the feeling of the person opposite me, and so when i start talking, i am able to chose a tone/a facial expression to match the perceived feeling, and by that i find a ground for understanding and communicate more effectively.
Love is the root of everything, when everything is done with love and with care, the result becomes amazing and paramount.
To celebrate the New Year, i have been decluttering my bedroom even more.
I did an intense clearing of my bedroom about 3 months ago, and the room did get more spacious and more room to relax. However, i found out that it could even get more spacious with the help of my sister.
She came for a visit and we shared the idea of minimalism. She looked at my bedroom and with her fresh view, there are more questions about whether i need these stuffs??
So it took us 2 hours this morning to throw another few more bags for recycling.
I feel great and now i am in love with my bedroom even more. It could well be a great place to find my calm self and meditating every morning or night.